Surely she has goals and dreams and aspirations and perhaps these are to do your unproductive chores making her a maid, cook, and errand runner instead of an equal or romantic partner. Instead she becomes a slave... a slave for love, a slave for money but none the less, a slave. Perhaps this is your destiny to be a slave owner or slave driver and she a slave. "

He had a point as he always did.

"Or," he said, "You could assist another in fulfilling their true purpose and at the same time fulfill your own by hiring a professional servant to allow you the time and energy to reach your absolute potential that is forever connected with the amount of time we have on this planet."

I had a lot to think about after he said this... and when I came to Singapore, it suddenly began to make sense.